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If you're using your imagination to create everything you want, why isn't it here already? Welcome back.
to Reconnect Her Fire and I'm Joanne, Transformation Identity Coach and I work with women purely to start bringing them back home to themselves to align to their dreams, their desires and start creating the wealth that they truly deserve. And today I want to carry on what I've been talking on my YouTube channel this week, Reconnect Her Fire. And that is all about the power of money and how women hold more limiting beliefs than men
and how we can start to go back into the versions and the identity that we came here for. And that was to be wealthy, prosperous. That was to be the creator of what it is that our minds currently hold. You have dreams, you have desires, but how far are they with you?
Have you pushed them aside to please everybody else, the family? And have you even forgotten what they were? Because so often, if I used to ask the women when I used to work in the NHS, time and time again, even to the first year of them having their baby, they would often actually just look blank.
and not even been able to give me a clear answer. They had almost rejected the idea that they had their desires and dreams anymore and they would just have to give up on them or bury them. But we know different now and we know actually they're given to us for you to bring to life. If you can think...
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of an image and you can hold it in your mind, you can hold it in your hand. Those are the simple laws of the universe and quantum physics says exactly the same. So whatever it is you're creating in your mind, you are bringing to life in your reality. When you follow the patterns,
every day and they repeat you know the thoughts will be the same. If you're noticing that your week is a bit like deja vu then actually you're creating those outcomes by the thoughts that you're allowing to control our minds. Now nobody unless you do the work
would actually have the power to suddenly change their entire mindset in a moment. It's been done, but I wouldn't advise trying because you could probably end up more defeated and feeling actually like it doesn't work when it does. So what I would suggest is to find out and what I spoke about in the podcast is what are your beliefs around money?
Do you actually know what they are? Because these are going to be the reasons that you are creating the thoughts, good or bad, negative or positive. They are going to be the reasons those thoughts then create your reactions, actions, behaviours, which then create the outcomes. So you can basically tell by somebody
when they give you the basic details of their life up to now, exactly what their beliefs would be about them, even to the extent of what they earn, because they often hit a level and they just can't seem to get above it. And no matter how hard they work,
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or what they do, they just can't get past it when actually it wasn't supposed to be a massive deal. It was supposed to be a belief that would have risen and come up time and time again. But you weren't tuned in to listen. You weren't reconnected to your soul. You were still expecting the outside world version of you to give you the answers when actually it was all about you coming home to yourself. It was all about you.
reconnecting to your soul. Your soul is connected to the most divine consciousness of infinity in everything you can imagine. It gives you every answer, it will give you every idea, every possibility that you could ever dream of you are connected to. We are souls having
human experience. There is a human version of you and there is a soul. A soul is inside of you and a soul is constantly being connected to divine energy, to the infinite. And it doesn't matter what you call it, God, universe, source.
It is constantly giving and manifesting whatever we are thinking, whatever we are believing.
And that is why some things are repeating and repeating and some things start to change because we get a new belief about something. Now we can lean in to the masculine because we know we often do that. The masculine energy is all about go, it's about drive, but it's also hustle. It's almost you've got to force it. You've got to continuously work hard with masculine energy until we mix and bring
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in some feminine energy which is actually the energy of receiving and we were here to receive we weren't here to be constantly hustling and forcing and pushing and working to the extreme we know that the hardest workers on the planet are certainly not the richest and some of the richest are actually work the least
So it's not about how hard you're working, it's how divinely you're connecting your feminine and your masculine and you are connected and understand who you are. Who actually you're here to serve. We're all here to serve, to help. It helps if you love to help others. Of course it does. But you wouldn't even be listening or tuning into this frequency for this podcast if you didn't.
And you certainly wouldn't be tuning in today's episode if you knew deep down there are reasons why the wealth isn't coming into you. You deserve all those dreams. Yes, those big dreams were given to you to create. You were here to create. And believe this or not, you can step into the version of yourself that has it all just by using your imagination. Einstein's tool always said.
Your imagination is far more powerful than knowledge. You are connecting your consciousness, which is your belief system, which are your thoughts, to the divine energy which is constantly moving through us. And when those two attach, that is manifesting and that is what you're doing 24-7. But and the big but.
If you're thinking, well yes, of course I'm doing well, I'm successful, I'm bringing in the money, but you know underneath there's a limiting belief.
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or there's a fear that's so quiet but it's bubbling underneath saying you've got to work hard for money you don't believe that you can easily get money you don't believe money is going to come to you you don't think you'll ever be worthy of being a multi-millionaire then they are what are called limiting beliefs
And no matter how much consciously you're saying, but I'm OK, I can be a millionaire. And you can hear in the way I'm saying this. You don't really believe it, do you? Whereas if I stand here and say, of course I'm a millionaire. What else would I? What would you expect different? And I'm actually showing up as a millionaire and I'm taking the action steps and I'm taking the bold leaps of faith.
and I'm investing in myself constantly and I'm taking risks from the mindset of a millionaire.
then I'm more likely to step into that frequency than I would if I stayed in the current version of me that went, dear, no, actually that money's going to run out and what happens if it doesn't come in and I better not spend that money and no, no, no, I can't invest in myself and I've done enough so I've just got to continue and I've got to save and my mum and dad said it was good to save money and we've got to have a tight budget and we've got to, no.
They are were my parents beliefs and they came rightfully so from a time of lack and lack of safety extremely through the Second World War. So that was their beliefs and programs.
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But they put them on to me because that's what parents do unconsciously. You're teaching your children what you know, rightfully so. And if you don't know any better, and we weren't taught or had the understanding back in my parents' early days that you could even change your mind. I grew up completely believing that your mind was set, done, dusted.
So whatever you were given, that was it. And I was always in a lack mindset and a jealous mindset and also one of hatred of myself that I couldn't change. So there was a huge revelation when I decided just over four years ago and had a massive awakening to start my own journey of self discovery, self awareness and start training and understanding the mindset and how the subconscious is.
is actually just a massive computer that we can update the programmes any time we choose. I got so angry. When I was learning all of this, I got mad. The grief and anger that come up to think all my life I've been walking around with this fear of never being good enough, of I can't change and I can never earn more and I've always got to struggle and...
I always was always out of money. It was never freely coming in to the levels I could even enjoy life. So rightfully so. And what you'll find is most people are still walking around unaware that they have programs from other people that are actually creating their daily outcomes, behaviors.
95 % of the day. Your subconscious mind is super strong. You're not going to override it just by consciously thinking. You're going to have to do some work and that is what the coaching program is all about because I'm there to support you. I'm there to give you the nudge. I'm there to hold.
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the beliefs that you have, that you choose and not go let you slip back to the old version of you because this is what happens. When we decide we want to level up, we want more money, we want more freedom, we want more choices in life and we want to live a better standard of living, we will always have to stretch and that is the uncomfortable feeling.
And that's when the limiting beliefs start to come up and you'll hear them even louder because they're going to be screaming at you telling you to sit back down to get back to the comfortable sofa and stay there because it believes it's safe for you. Well, we don't live in caves being chased by tigers because that's how far that brain has come along.
but still believes that you are going to be eaten alive, ripped apart, if you decide to level up, if you decide that you want a better lifestyle, that you want your dreams to start to become your reality. So our minds...
will trip us up and our minds will set us up to fail, to self-sabotage because there is a deep belief often that it's not safe to have this money, that it's not safe to receive and it's not safe to be seen with this money or even start to bring it in because we're going to have to get more visible and being visible wasn't safe. Women have a massive amount of limiting beliefs.
and unfortunately they're not as easy to find until you actually do some of the self-reflection work and you do some of the deeper identity work and you can do all the mind work that you choose but you'll never actually reach it until you start to do the deeper identity work and that's the transformations that you
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have a choice that you can do. That's exactly what I teach. And time and time again, when you see the women dramatically change their entire life and it ripples throughout all the areas of their life, that's the magic of what this work does. So I know it works. I do it on myself. And not only do I continuously grow and practice what I preach,
But the magic comes when you see them being able to bring in more wealth and more joy and more happiness and actually get the time freedom back to understand that, they're on their own journey. They're discovering themselves, but they are supported continuously. You're never actually on your own. As a soul, you are connected.
You are divinely connected and you are being given, gifted, if you choose to tune into those frequencies, if you choose to quieten the mind, if you choose to be more present and if you choose to actually start to believe that there is more to you than this human and this 3D world that you're seeing.
And another thing I'd love to explain is that when you are actually
believing that you can start to move the direction of your life, that you can actually create your desires and bring them to life, you open up a whole new mindset of possibilities because your mind now is going, okay, she believes something different here. We're going to have to show her that those beliefs are right. And when you start imploding and letting go
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So, of all the things that you believed which were lies and somebody else's disbeliefs, you make room to put the beliefs that would empower you in.
and that beautiful garden that you can call your subconscious mind, you're not allowing the weeds to grow so much now. You're starting to plant the most empowering beliefs, the beautiful flowers, the ones that you want to nurture, the ones that you want to spend time looking after and being consciously aware of what those thoughts are creating every day.
But if you're not self-aware and you're not willing to even question what's going on in your mind, you're going to repeat. And you will see people do this time and time again. But there be the ones moaning and complaining that life is just boring and it's their feeling in lack and they're complaining and they're gossiping. So what do you think they're going to be creating for the next week, month, year?
Whereas the ones that are actually having more gratitude for what they've got, even if it's not exactly what they want, but they're thankful and they've got a brighter outcome. They see things in a positive way. Then guess what they're going to be creating more of and bringing more of what they're thankful for in?
Because gratitude is what connects you the fastest to divine intellect. Simple as. The more you can be grateful, the more you can say it, the more you can believe it of what you've currently got and actually notice just how much you've got around you, the more you'll bring in the next day, the next week.
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And then you start to see yourself transform in ways that you don't want to go back. You don't want to go back to the old version. You want to keep stretching because you're attracting new things that actually make you feel a lot better. Whether that's wealth, whether that's opportunities. It could be simply someone comes up and gives you a nice compliment and you've received it this time. You haven't rejected it.
And then both of you are on a feel-good because it's good to give, receive. And it's whatever you give out, you're going to get back. So then you're more likely to actually make a compliment to somebody. And then you're more likely to actually see the good in things, even when before you might not have. You might have just jumped on the...
criticizing band, you might have just gone straight into self-judgment. And the major factor is when you're more grateful, you start to give yourself permission to actually like and love yourself a little bit more and you start to trust yourself more. And that's one of the biggest lessons I've learnt.
that there were parts of me that still didn't trust myself. So I would almost self-sabotage opportunities that would have led to more money or a better outcome, a better partner. I would deliberately repeat old patterns that were keeping me feeling a certain way, that I was always complaining and I always had something to moan about and always something to...
make myself feel worse about. And the whole time it was my own beliefs about me creating it, whereas I used to just blame the world and people around me. And that's not true. The truth is it was just a direct mirror reflection and a message that there were parts of myself
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that just needed a little bit more attention and understanding and until I worked with them nothing did change. So yeah, you can, you can completely change your life and I mean completely. Even whatever you're doing right now does not define you. The things that you call yourself do not define you.
and you can transform your whole life in a moment. You can choose a different outcome at any moment throughout the day. There is nothing on this planet universe that says that you have to continue as you are now. The only thing controlling you right now is your mind and your choices and your decisions. That's it.
And when we allow that to sink in and then we take full responsibility for our actions, for what we are currently seeing in the 3D world, and remember what you're currently seeing is what you manifested a few days or weeks ago. I know that sounds strange.
But what you're currently seeing at this moment is the past because you've already brought this into life. So you have all the resources to instantly change this outcome. People don't suddenly decide and stay the same, do they? People decide and make a different decision and they change their direction of life. Just like you can, but your beliefs might not be...
in the right frame of mind as you would wish them to be.
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So what would you love to believe about yourself, about money? What would you like to see different in your life? Pick three things today. What would you love to see different? How would you love to show up and feel different? And what is one step that you could take today to change that? What's one step, one idea that's come to your mind?
But write out your old beliefs, write the new ones and start to see which ones empower you and start to believe that you can change, that you have the possibility because you do. The minute you can acknowledge the old beliefs, the minute you can change them, but only you can do it. Nobody else can do this work for you. But everything that you dream of, you can hold in your hand.
That isn't a myth. That isn't something just made up. That is universal law and quantum physics now absolutely agree with it and they can't even argue with it because the evidence is out there. So isn't it time that you made a change? Isn't it time?
that you can start to create what it is that you love and desire and give back to the world what it is that would light you up instead of maybe doing things that you just should do or you feel you have to. Because life is abundance all the time. But if you can't see it, there's a belief that's creating you to stay in that prison of fear, of lack.
The only difference is that you get to change this. You have all the possibilities that anybody that you admire does.
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So until next week for this podcast, start believing something different today and tell yourself at every opportunity that it's yours if you choose it to be. Because there are no limits, there are no limitations, there are just simply beliefs that are programs that...
if they were outdated on your phone, they wouldn't even run the system. You wouldn't even put up with a phone that had those outdated lies and programmes. So why do you allow them to rule you? That's the biggest question. When you answer that one, you'll start to see what else is holding you.
