Joanne (00:00)
You've got to believe it before you see it. Welcome back to Reconnect Her Fire, and I'm Jo, wealth and identity mentor for female founders who are ready to rise into the next level of success, abundance, and wealth. And I want to talk to you today about that title that I've just said.
You have to believe it before you see it. And I'm going to give you a very short story in a minute that will let you see exactly how things can work out for you when you learn to trust yourself. You learn and lean in to your own intuition, and you are connecting to your soul, your purpose, and your passion, and your self belief is at a stage.
Where you know what you do is always gonna be for the best, even if it looks messy from the outside. So, what happened was just over a month ago, I took the biggest bold decision and signed up to a world-leading coach in manifestation. Now the price could have bought a car.
But it wasn't about the money because the more I invest in myself, the more I realise, the more I see, and the more evidence I get is that I'm growing, my business is growing, I'm evolving, and I'm getting closer to my dreams, my bigger desires than ever before. And also creating the reality that I've dreamt of a year ago is here now. So what
One of the fundamental aspects of the new version of me that holds the wealth, that holds the big business, is to actually believe that the version of that is already here. And the dreams and the desires I hold are already here. Because energetically they are. We don't create something out of what's here.
Everything we've been given as a dream and a desire and a goal is already there. We've just got to energetically, vibrationally match what it is we're after. And that often comes down to the experience that we want to feel, we want to be in. And you know yourself, the amount of times that you've reached your goals, there's always the next one.
You've got that level, but then you don't quite feel that fulfillment for long. It doesn't last. It's not supposed to because we are here to create and grow. So that's why you go, well, I want something bigger now, I want something better. But how often do you stop at that level and you stay stuck or stagnant for far too long?
But if you had more self-awareness and you had more self-trust and you could visualise and believe that those visions were already here, would you likely step into them, even though this world that you're in at the minute, or the bank statements that you're currently seeing, and you didn't allow that to affect you because your belief was, your dream and desires were here. Now.
Could you do that? If you believed that you wanted to become a millionaire, could you honestly say that you could step into that identity today to see the results? That is how we manifest. We don't just do it by imagining the outcome or seeing the vision. We actually manifest by using our body, our mind, and our soul.
And we are combining those and in an order as well because actually we need the soul to work for us in calming the nervous system in allowing us to become who it is that we were always.
But we had so many beliefs, so many limitations put upon us that we can't even see who we are anymore. We just go along with the herd. We just believe what we get told and we just run, don't we? We run from our dreams because we don't believe we can hold them. The amount of times you ask people and ask your family now, what's their biggest, boldest dream?
Some are too embarrassed to say it because they've never even reached out for it. Others don't even know what it is. And that itself tells you everything that they've just been so conditioned and programmed that they don't even know who they are. So when I say self-awareness is probably the first step that you will have to go.
Deeper into because you need to know what's running your mind. You know what's running a computer, you know what apps are on your phone, but you don't even know what programs are in your mind controlling and bringing you the reality that you're currently experiencing, feeling, and being. So why not take a leap of faith and try something that might sound bizarre, but the evidence is there time and time again that it works.
And one of the things she asked us to do that she had done herself and also got her team and other people to do, and it worked, was to show and prove to yourself that if you are embodying the version of you that's becomes a millionaire, that's got the abundance, that's got the prosperity, that feels that abundant, would you now go to maybe one of your favourite designer shops to go and buy something that
You weren't even going to acknowledge the price tag. And you could actually pick the item up and pay for it and walk out the shop knowing that's normal, that frequency, that feeling is normal.
So that's exactly what I did because she always says that when you actually embody that feeling, that sensation, you'll notice the universe will always give that money back. It will always return. Because money is circulation, it's constantly needing to move.
And it's a bit like your heart. It's constantly moving the blood throughout your body, bringing you life with oxygen and the cells. And circulation is what money needs. It doesn't need to be boxed, it doesn't need to be hoarded. You don't increase the wealth of money by hoarding it in boxes under your bed, like often they did in the past.
And if you leave it in a bank, it has to be used in circulation to create the interest that you take out, even if it's low. But actually, circulation is the key to movement. So having a belief of the money's gonna return tenfold, or at least return to me within the next week or few months that I spend on something that brings me joy, that's something that brings me happiness.
But I've also stepped into a higher identity. So I've shown my nervous system it's safe. Look, we survived. It might have felt a bit sticky, but actually I felt really good in that shop. So I did. I went up to London. I went to my favourite store and I picked out the bag that I'd already decided I wanted years ago. But actually there were other things there that I picked up, and without hesitating, I bought them. Yeah.
the price would be quite frightening to some people. But the funny thing was, I actually felt that confident. I had done the embodiment work and I've only been with this coach for just under a month.
And what I noticed was how happy I was sat there. I actually belonged in that shop. Where before I might have walked in, looked around, moaned at the prices, looked at the people that were happily buying things and judged them and walked back out.
And actually felt even worse about myself. That would be the old me. But this new version of me, the new identity, actually felt confident in that shop. I actually felt at peace. My mind wasn't racing all the negative thoughts, going, get out of here, you can't afford this, Jo. What the hell are you doing? my goodness me, look at the price. Do you know how I actually felt? Because I had visualised myself?
I had seen myself going in this shop, picking those items. Well, I bought more, so I wasn't even aware I was gonna buy more.
But I had already given my mind the image, the visualisation, and I had practiced it. So my nervous system wasn't seeing something for the first time. It wasn't in a reactive state. It was in a, we've been here before, she's safe doing that. Because your mind does not know the difference between reality and imagination. Because if I asked you now to imagine picking up half a lemon.
A juicy lemon, and you're actually holding it in your hand, and you're about to bring that to your mouth, more than likely, I can guarantee, because mine is already my mouth is salvating because it's believing it's true just through my imagination. So if I'm showing my mind something that I want to bring into my life, that I want to create, but I also want my nervous system to feel safe, to feel calm.
To feel expansive that it's safe to hold this kind of wealth and this money, then I've got to use the imagination a few minutes a day to be able to create that. Because I can't just keep running up to London every day practising it. That's not realistic. And we know.
We know this, we know through athletes, we know through singers, famous people. We use imagination to recreate the end result of what they want. The picture they see themselves on the stage. And if you're lucky enough to go and see the Michael Jackson, you'll understand the film is about how he is the biggest manifester. He created his life through his imagination, through his belief system, through his vocals.
And so can you, and so can anyone else create exactly what they wish to believe in themselves. When you become self-aware and you know what to remove, what you know to replant in your subconscious mind. But when I bought that item, there was a slight bit saying, Will the money come back?
Okay, but it doesn't matter if it doesn't. I've just got something I really enjoy. And I had pictures taken in the shop, and when I looked at them on the phone
I could see how happy I was. I was actually settled. I wasn't in a fear state. So I felt, well, this has to be. I must have embodied it. And do you know, two hours after buying that, a client signed up to my coaching program and that repaid that entire bill. I was absolutely, well.
I expected it to happen in a way, but I'd only been doing this work for a month, so I wasn't, I would say, that confident, but it happened. So I was over the moon, and it also gently reminded me I was always really good at doing this, was believing before I saw it.
And something through childhood got me through childhood because I could actually see some outcomes. And one of them was I would always end up excessively wealthy. But the beliefs I held kept me back. And that is what I'm breaking day by day by day. But the fastest way to do this work.
Is to actually use all the elements that we've been given. You've got a mind and a mindset, and that needs reprogramming. You've got a body and a nervous system which needs re-regulating and feeling safe to hold and expansive and allow. And you need to tap more into the feminine energy, which is the receivership. I never understood any of this before a few years ago.
But until I now appreciate it, it all has its place in manifesting, rather than just one or two things. Which up until a few months ago I was doing religiously, I had manifested some massive things, including this house, in record speed. But it never held long enough.
And it is this one missing key. So what I'm going to ask you today is to just take a moment to see where are you circulating your money?
Do you hold on to it? Do you fear it not coming back to you? So then start to notice what beliefs are starting to come up about money. Your beliefs around money will control exactly what you earn, what you can hold on to, what you feel safe to earn and attract, and what you feel safe to spend.
And something will change dramatically when you can start shifting those beliefs.
Nobody can do this work for you. This is something you need to do yourself, and it's something I do within my program Reconnect Her Fire. It's all about coming home to yourself, to your soul, to trusting your intuition, to trusting yourself and understanding exactly who you are, what it is you want, and how to embody the next version of you that holds it.
If anything here is stirring inside of you and you're ready for transformation, you're ready for changes that will actually bring the results step by step into your life, then message me. don't forget to subscribe because you are the master of your entire reality and outcomes.
And you have the power within you to have everything that you can currently bring to your mind.
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