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I'm going to rant today so hold on because I am so pissed off with getting online and seeing AI everywhere and it's okay for some but my god I can't even trust what I'm watching now and the fact I'm seeing highly successful intelligent women covering themselves with an AI picture and thinking that's enough and I can't even watch it now I don't know how you feel about it but anyway
Welcome back to Reconnect Your Fire. And today I'm going to jump into a subject that I believe you want to hear. Not only is it most of what my clients come to me for and I help them, but most of all, my God, it will help you see a whole new perspective. Because if you are also fed up getting on social media and seeing all these fake AI pictures and animations and you start
questioning what's the truth anymore. Is it any wonder that maybe it's a gentle reflection, remember, I'm brutally honest, it's a bit of a reflection that maybe you aren't being wholly true to the world. Maybe you're hiding that bit of woohoo magic inside still. Maybe you're not content with your life right now, but you're still trying to fit it in.
to what you felt was right for you years ago. I know it's gonna get you thinking and that's what I'm here for. But just imagine this, if you were that open and expressive with your truth and you spoke about your intuition and you didn't want the logical explanation, you didn't need other people to tell you what to do, you literally trusted your first intuition.
intuitive hit that reaction and even if it did piss people off or make them dislike you even but it cleared out the ones that weren't there for you and actually invited the right people into your life wouldn't you want that? So why do so many of us still hide the fact we are?
a bit more magical inside. We do have our own opinions. We can speak up. We can tell our truth. And most of all, we can lean into what we already know inside of us. But again, women are hiding. They're hiding their magic. They're hiding their power. And it's not necessarily your fault.
But if you're aware of it, you can at least start now to understand why you're probably so frustrated, stuck and in a life that you've outgrown. That's why we hit these brick walls. You can call it the midlife crisis. You can call it whatever you want. But basically, it's an awakening that you're denying, that you're pushing away.
because you're still scared of how others are going to react. You're going to be judged. You're going to be taken back to being that child that was bullied and held in a space where nobody liked her. And that is terrifying. I get that. I totally understand. And I empathise because until we understand who we are and we've got more self-awareness about ourself, we can't change. We can't change this 3D world outside of us.
because you still believe that's all there is for you. You're not willing to come out and speak out and be your whole self. You're not understanding the real life that you've got the opportunity to experience and explore because you're scared of what others will say. And it's never, the truth is, it's never about what other people think about you. It's what you think about yourself.
and people can only irritate you and annoy you and tell you things if it's something you believe somebody can't come up to you and my god I absolutely hate your green hair because you don't have green hair well it might be one of you but so you look at them in a bit puzzled because it doesn't affect you whereas if they mentioned that maybe you've got larger feet than everybody else and you know you have that was going to hit you a bit more to the core and that will annoy you and that will hurt
So maybe it's time that we did speak up our truth more. It's something that's really gone through my mind this week because again, I'm coming into my business in an angle that felt comfortable, but actually now I'm not even attracting that kind of client anymore. I am truly attracting clients that are ready to come out.
of the closet of their spirituality of their woohoo magic of their desires their dreams that they've held and they've pushed away to please everybody else to make sure everybody else was comfortable and have their desires met but they've pushed themselves so far away they've bloody forgotten who they are but something inside of them especially this year you know the energy of this year it's enormous compared to what you're going to experience
It's like going to the highest mountain in the world and you've achieved something that you never imagined you could. Well that's the energy you've been given every day you've been given it and that's why it feels so annoying that you can't speak up. That's why you're getting agitated and irritated with the world around you because yeah it's not going to reflect back to you what you want because you're not openly asking for what it is that you want. You're still you're still hiding.
Now we all do this to a certain extent because we want to fit in don't we? We don't want to upset the cart. We don't want to make other people feel uncomfortable. Well fuck them. Seriously, fuck them. You can't sit there any longer with that internal feeling bubbling away causing you internal discomfort because it is. Your gut reactions are your truth.
And if it's irritating you hearing this good, that means you are listening internally. Your soul is crying out for you to start becoming the leader that you know you could be. And I'm not going to say the word should because that isn't true, but you know deep down that that woohoo part of you that feels embarrassed and ashamed to admit that it's wakening up is really
there for you and the rest of the world. You're here to lead other people. You are here to awaken other people. You haven't gone through life and all the crap and been dragged through hell and back to be sat here today asking to be comfortable and cosy and warm and no worries and no fears and no judgements. No you're not. You haven't had that kind of life. You've purposely had
one hell of a journey to even reach today and you might be sat there or you might be listening to this in all different ways and actually starting to understand maybe my life is meant for more. Stop giving yourself the permission. How often do we expect other people to give us permission? We expect other women, don't we, to do something and then we feel they've done it, I can. That is what asking permission is all about.
We often wait for the great masters or the leaders or the people that we look up to for them to do something and then we go, we can do it. What's stopping you? Be brutally honest with yourself. What is it you would love to do? And I don't mean the little dreams. I mean the extraordinary ones that you think are so out of reach, but actually they're the ones that already live within you that have already been created, that are just a different frequency that you haven't matched yet.
and are being given to you to live. Nothing comes into the world without being a thought. Everything has to become a thought first. And until we imagine it, until we use the most powerful tool we've been given, our imagination, to create what we believe we want and how we want to feel, then nothing will change. So if you're moaning on about the same thing,
crap that's happening today and has been going on all week, I know what you're going to bring into your life tomorrow. I know what you're going to see and I definitely know what you're going to attract more of, more things for you to moan at. Whereas if you decided that actually today could be the day that makes all the difference because you do something different. Now woohoo magic doesn't mean you sit on your bloody arse and wait for the furries to come and
cast a few spells if only it was that easy hey but life is easy when you understand yourself more you don't need more information you don't need more outside information you need to start reconnecting to who you are your inner truth your inner wisdom your knowledge because there were times in your life that you did trust yourself go back to those remember that you acted and you took on you took that
first step into that unknown because it wasn't certain but it worked out didn't it? Because you trusted yourself and then something happened in your life it might be in that crappy relationship or the job went wrong or you didn't get what you wanted and then you threw that away and went well that doesn't work and you stopped trusting yourself you didn't believe in yourself anymore you lost your own internal magic you gave it away to the 3D world and expected everyone else to tell you what to do and how to do it
my god doesn't that sound mad? Absolutely crazy. I know because I lived through it most of my life. I didn't trust myself. I might have had moments but not many. I literally would be one of those that just followed the crowd so I blended in so I didn't get stood in a place where I would have been picked on or left out or made to feel invisible again or judged or
bullied because through my childhood that was my life just for having bloody red hair and freckles I laugh now but I literally that controlled every day of my life the fear of actually speaking up in photographs my head was put down in shame I was ashamed of how I looked I was ashamed of who I was and
That's the saddest thing because that's when our lives are so destructive. So my God, this is why I do what I do. I love to allow other women to express their inner magic, to feel safe in a space where they can be themselves without anybody else judging them and giving them the chance not only to express it,
But to build the confidence so when they do go back into their real world they do go back into the workspace that is so conditioned to bypass woohoo what's that unless it's a fact or figure but the world's changing dramatically more people are leaving the corporate life because they can't actually cope in it any longer they don't even know why they can't cope half the time
They just feel burnt out but they haven't realised the reality is they are awakening inside and they need to reconnect to who they truly are. They need to trust themselves. They need to listen to who they are and they need to become aware of what it is that they want in life now.
and it's not often that it's following the crowns that will get you to where you want. You've done everything right. You've got the degrees, you've got the job, you've got the house, you've got the car, you mix with the right people but does it fulfill you? Does it give you inspiration? Do you come home feeling joyful and excited for the next day?
Are you expressing yourself fully? Are people listening to what you're saying with enthusiasm? Because if those aren't part of your daily life then you're missing out. You don't have to miss out.
and you only do the things that you love when you take the steps towards them. No one's come knocking on the bloody door going to drag you out and go, come on, out you come, I'm going to take you, you're going to do this today. Wouldn't that be wonderful? No, you've got to start doing and the simplest things are the easiest to do, but they are also the easiest not to do. The joys of life come when you accept that you are responsible for everything that happens around you.
Now that doesn't mean what other people do because you can't control them. That's not what I'm talking about. It's the feelings that you continue to have throughout the day are what you are creating for your thoughts and your beliefs. And when you change the old patterns and the old stories that you tell yourself, you start to perceive and see a different outcome and better possibilities and a joyful expectation rather than a fearful, let's rerun that nightmare.
ending over and over again.
But your inner woohoo magic, whatever you want to call it, it could be an inner voice. It could be a little twinge that you get occasionally and it just feels a bit exciting. But then somebody else dismisses it or you know they will or you've already worked out that people won't understand what you're saying or they're going to look at you different and they're not going to take you seriously because you've worked so bloody hard to get up in your career, in your profession.
surrounded by men that literally just focus on one thing and there's no such thing as woohoo in their life. But what is woohoo? Let's define it. What is woohoo magic? It's simply you expressing yourself fully without fear, without judgment and leaning into what could be
rather than what is at the moment. Everything we see currently is already from a past event. It's just the end result, but it doesn't mean it has to be. We know we can change things instantly. You know that, you see something on TV that shocks you and you change your belief in a moment. I did with the Net program. All to do with how the industry of how
animals are killed and that one programme just shocked me to the core and I've not eaten meat since and that's years ago now so you can change your belief in a moment
but you choose to continue repeating the same habits, the behaviours, saying the same things, attending the same environments that you know that people are enhancing your life. You're not walking away feeling great, you're more confused and you actually feel heavy and drained but you still choose to go back to the circus as I call it.
You say you don't like clowns but you walk into the circus every day. The amount of women at the moment that are walking out and ending their careers because they are literally burnt out. But often it's not the burnout that's the issue it's the denial of them fully expressing themselves. Who knows? But I'm sure something might have woken in you today and I'm glad it has because it's time to start questioning
Who are you? What are your values? What do you truly believe in yourself? What do you believe about the world around you? What do you believe is possible for you now? Who do you look up to? Who inspires you? Or are you still sat watching the news and TV full of fear? And at the moment, even the social media is going to the level of the news.
and even more so the scaremongering because none of it's actual fact it's just people's own interpretation that they know they're going to get a reaction and get more views so it's even worse from the bloody news
So what I do is I switch off from social media even for a day and my God, I keep going back to it, it's like that dummy, it's that comfort blanket, isn't it? It's like, my God, my arms just automatically reach out for it. And I look at myself going, what? What are you, a crane? But it's the same, it's just a repetitive behaviour that I've done over and over again so my body just acts out like you would the same as you go to get up and walk.
You don't think about walking, you just do it. Well, that's what's happened. If you repeat something enough times, your body just automatically does it. Doesn't mean it's good for you. Doesn't mean it's going to enhance your life because picking up the phone does not enhance my life. It has purpose, but it does not enhance my life. Realistically, I would love to go back to a basic phone that didn't have all of this, but unfortunately nowadays the apps that you need.
essential in some aspects to even places I visit I have to have the app.
So it's not about cutting things out, it's about getting some order of what is it that is important to you and stop denying that inner knowledge, that inner wisdom that's trying to come out because that is where, that is what is going to express itself and that's what's going to magnetise what you've been wanting all along. But you are the one denying it and pushing it away because you have fear.
You don't have to do that. The magic is within you the whole time. It's whether you allow it to come out or not.
So just remember that you are the magic. It's not outside of you. It's not something that's woohoo. And yes, you've got to start to believe before you see things because what we want doesn't instantly appear that often. We have to actually have a thought process continuing for a little while for it to have a momentum. So it's actually being created in the background. We don't see the things getting created.
No one does. We take the action steps, what we can see in this 3D realm, but we're not actually seeing what really is going on behind the scenes, because suddenly it's there. And we didn't see it getting created, but it is. So, woohoo and magic are just part of you. And whether you accept it you reject it is exactly how far you'll go in your life. So yeah, it has been a bit brutally honest today.
But I've got it up inside of me and it's bursting to come out in bigger and better ways. And however you express yourself, it's perfectly okay. No one can tell you any different. And the only way you do this is to keep practicing. Whether that's speaking up in front of friends or work colleagues that you've never spoke the way that you would love to speak or discuss.
or maybe joining a new group that actually is more in line with where you feel comfortable, whatever it is that's right for you. But anyway, until next week, with much love.
